What's Introvert??

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Do you know what does Introvert mean?
According to Cambridge dictionary, Introverts is someone who is shy, quiet, and unable to make friends easily. I guess some of you may ask why I wrote this kind of article. So I just want to make sure, that you guys know well about introverts people around you and how it feels being introverted. They may not someone you used to meet or someone who has cheerful behavior like extroverts. They are different and unique on their own way.

You need to get to know more about introverts, too :)


1. Introverts need recharging after being social.
This one is absolutely different from extrovert, people who are extrovert, they like to be around many people and never get tired of it. But for introverts, when we're socializing in a large group of people that we don't know well, it really drains us. If we don't talk to anyone for hours or even days, please understand that we are not upset or angry. Quietness is a must for us, this is to maintain or sanity and also energy.

2. Introverts prefer to be around people and not crowds.
The statement that said introvert hate people, couldn't be more wrong. Introverts prefer to be in a small group. Still related to number one, they'd like to be invited, even if they're gonna say no in the end. Why? It's really nice for them to know that someone was thinking of them or knowing their existences. And, when introverts go to a party or social gathering, they need leave a little early, but that doesn't mean they didn't enjoy it, they just feel tired and need to recharge their energy for the next day.
 
3. There's a lot of things going inside introverts' heads.
According to introjis, it’s a scientific fact that their brains are different from the brains of extroverts. When information enters our brains, it travels a longer pathway and passes through more areas of the brain, including areas associated with self-reflection, empathy, planning, and evaluating. This means we process information more thoroughly and deeply.

4. It's really hard to put introverts' thought into words
Introvert people are better thinkers than speakers. If you wanna know what their opinion or what they really think, you can ask them to write it in a paper. Or, ask and tell them, they don't have to answer the questions right away, it'll surely give them the time to process and think.
If they are quiet during a meeting or small-talk, it could probably mean they are just thinking about what everyone's saying. And, if you wanna know what their thoughts about, ask them later, one-on-one, because they don't like being the center of attention x

5. The fierce face isn't a bad thing.
You guys must be familiar with that fierce or grumpy face of your introvert friend. And you'll wonder if they are disappointed. No they are not. They are good observers who like to sit in silence and listen to whatever everyone has to say. So, that is the way they are and nothing wrong with it like they are upset or angry. No they are absolutely not. 

6. Never judge introverts if you see them alone in public.
Introverts like to spend most of their times alone, it gives them the chance to do what they do best and of course, quietly observe. In this kind of situation loneliness, they recharge their energies to be at their best, but when their batteries are fully charged, they are definitely ready to take on the world :)x

7. Introverts have fewer friends.
Don't judge them if you see introverts going only with the same few persons. They don't go to parties to find new friends, they prefer to hang out with their close friends and enjoy their company. They feel comfortable that way and that's the way they have fun. The relationships between introverts and their friends are deeper, because introverts often prefer quality over quantity :) and did you know? Introverts are loyal friends. And, introverts like to spend their time in the online world, since online world gives them time to think and reflect what they have to say or write.

8. Introverts are good listeners.
When you have a lot of problems and you need someone to talk to, just call your introvert friends. They will fully listen to you without interrupting or judging you. But remember that they need to be heard as you do, so please be there for them, cause they will certainly feel appreciated.

Well, still lots of things about introverts out there, but I think this will help you to know about them already.
So are you an introvert??

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